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Thursday, April 16, 2009

Discussions!!

I was having a discussion sometime back with a family member of mine. The discussion was smooth and with no course of time I could see the arguments flaring out.

Some times, I hate when people talk in strident voice in a discussion. What do they want to prove and why on heaven’s sake do they need to raise their voice? They very much are aware that person who is the victim of their vagaries is nevertheless deaf but still they need to raise the voice thus increasing their so called BP.

I was wondering if in a discussion one person raises his/her voice what is the amiable solution the other should follow….May be shut his/her dirty mouth and never utter any word. That saves hell lot of time, energy and also the emotional trauma one is going through….

3 comments:

bhavin said...

hahah... cool down...
These are the experiences which help you segregate a type of people who have ears, from the ones who also know listening!!! Those who have respect for others' opinion are mostly people who are good listeners...
isn't it? :)

Raj Shekhar Jeeee said...

Oh seems that the train of arguments that went by across the board were indeed not on very much peaceful lines. Certain such moments are indeed part of life and to be taken with a pinch of salt. The next morning,things would be back to normal.
However, I beg to differ on your view point that, keeping mouth shut is not my way of coming to a solution especially when iam on the right side of the fence. Differences of opinions do arise in all situations - my way would be to give a tough,but fair fight and then even then if it does not result in a consensus - then we Agree to Disagree on that point. Later though, I would still go by my way and be ready to face praises or brickbats.

S.Mahathi said...

Ya its true but when anybody are angry the high pich voice is common....so when we are in that situation we should definitely shut our mouths to save energy as u mentioned.
May be the high pich yelling will make them feel that the reason why they are shouting will be understood by us more better than in a low voice....